You’re not looking for advice.
You’re looking for clarity, and for a way to stand differently inside a relationship that matters deeply to you.
You may already know what’s happening.
What’s missing is steadiness, perspective, and a place where you can look honestly without being judged or corrected.
This is not about fixing the other person.
Working with me is a quiet, focused space to look at what’s happening without blame, diagnosis, or moral judgement. We start with you, not to fix you, but to restore clarity and self-respect where things have become emotionally charged.
I don’t tell you what to do or who to be.
I don’t tell you what to do or who to be. I help you see who you’re being now, often without noticing, and what that creates in your relationships and in your life. From there, different choices become possible.
And if you do choose to commit, that matters.
Not because you’re trapped, but because real change in close relationships often requires staying present when things become uncomfortable, which they usually do.
You’re not left alone in that discomfort. And we don’t walk away from the work at the first sign of it.
This work is taken seriously.
Not through pressure or intensity, but through clarity, honesty, and consistency.
We don’t push through. We don’t avoid. We stay with what’s real, without losing yourself inside it.
The first step is a 20-minute connect call to see whether this feels like a fit.
If it does, we move to a discovery call to explore what’s actually happening.
Then, if it makes sense, you’ll experience a taste of the work before any commitment is made. If there’s a match, I’ll make an offer. If there isn’t, I’ll tell you that too.
The commitment is 3, 6 or 12 months. Not because I need guaranteed income, but because this work requires time and space, and it will get uncomfortable. The commitment protects you from your own impulse to bail when it gets hard.
That’s where the transformation happens.
At the end of agreed period, we’ll discuss whether to extend for another 3 or 6 months, or whether the work feels complete. Transformation takes time, most people work with me for at least 6 months.
